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scott hartnett

from goulburn

2011-10-17 14:33:50

where does Australia rate

On the silly side, how would Australian culture if it where an individual rate on this narcissistic scale? or would it fall under multipersonality disorder.

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Peter

from Brisbane

2011-10-16 14:42:08

NPD

I have checked replies a few times since the program and note many with very similar experiences have a very high "agree" rating. It would seem that true NPD is clearly recognisable as distinct from other personality "types". Thankyou Insight you have given many of us considerable comfort.

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Phill

from wirrabara

2011-10-15 17:17:46

NPD

I have come across many people who portray narcistic behaviours and recognised the destructiveness of it in relationships within my own family. These people truly do beleive that they are in the right and everyone else is wrong. They do not handle being confronted and will run when the going gets tough. They are very desyructive and manipulating people who cause much pain and distress, but ask them and its not their fault. They have every excuse under the sun after the event. Some people call ah

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Kathleen

from Hobart

2011-10-14 21:27:05

Narcissists

Narcissisism is a personality disorder, people who "suffer" from it will not benefit from empathy training, they will use it to work out how to manipulate. Or am I talking about psychopaths?

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Marie

from Gold Coast

2011-10-14 16:02:50

Effects of Narcissism

I started reading about narcissism in 2010. From this information, I could indentify who were the narcissists in my life. One of them is my ex-partner's mother. She talks at you, constantly interrupts you, interfere's, mis-judges you, talks down to you, negatively gossips, takes pleasure in showing off her affluence, does not acknowledge you. Has no empathy & or insight. She lives in England & I live in Australia. I can celebrate this in so many ways, thank goodness for the two hemispheres!!!

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johanna

from new south wales

2011-10-13 17:44:11

narcissism

Having suffered under the abusive hands of an extreme narcissistic mother since childhood, I am only too aware of the damaged legacy that this has left in my psyche and wonder whether a support group specifically for daughters of these emotionally bereft and often cruel mothers would help in validating and healing the numerous issues around trust and intimacy that can continue to plague us in our endeavours to sustain relationships

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Emma

from Victoria

2011-11-03 19:19:14

narcissism

I agree, a support group would be great. When you have a narcissistic parent, friends can be helpful, but no-one is really going to get it like someone else who has been through it. Besides narcissists can be very attractive when they want to be....

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Anthony

from Sydney

2011-10-12 23:42:03

Narcissism and Borderline similar

I think one of the most important issues mentioned in the show was how there is a poor mental health literacy about narcissism in the community and this equally applies to borderline personality disorder which is a very similar disorder and as prevalent as narcissism. Both are similar but there are important differences in how to deal with them. It would be beneficial to get educated on these two conditions because we are likely to encounter a situation at least once in our lives if not more.

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sandra

from sydney

2011-10-12 08:40:40

self loathing

there was a comment about self loathing and i know my narcissist boyfriend accused me of many subversive reasons as to why i would go out with him. it was then i realised that he thought he wasnt worth going out with. he separated himself from the rest of civilisation by saying 'people like you' meaning that other people didnt have problems like him. He also 'faked' empathy only giving enough to be socially acceptable. his regular fortnightly tirades to bring me to tears , gave him power.

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Nik

from VIC

2011-10-12 01:59:38

Narcissism condition

A narcissist is just a psychopath in hiding, because of the lack of love or empathy. Narcissists can't be cured because they enjoy who they are. In the old days, they are simply called wicked people. Now in the modern times, their behaviours seem so strange so we call them narcissists, sadists. They are the catalyst in all the unhappiness or stress in the world. Although it is mostly genetic, proper parenting or very early intervention could supress it in some of the cases.

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Sharon

from Surfers Paradise

2011-10-11 21:21:42

Narcissism

Its about time people started to acknowledge NARCISSISTIC personality disorder, My daughter is in a relationship with a 39 year old and she is 20 years old . He has totally destroyed who she is , the day before my grandaughter was born he text a message from my daughters phone telling me i wasn't welcome at the hospital. He has slowly brainwashed her into believing all her family members and friends are in love with him . Its like a cultism its sick and does come from the parents up bringing

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