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4 Oct 2015 - 1:45 PM  UPDATED 4 Oct 2015 - 1:48 PM

Watch the Australian special of "If You Are the One" on February 14th @730pm on SBS 2


It's vicious out there in the land of love. If you don't believe us, just watch an episode of "If You Are The One." 

While the pursuit of finding "The One" is hard, here are some pearls of wisdom we've gained from watching the show. Take these nuggets of gold on your quest to finding true love! 


Ask and you shall receive....maybe. But you got to ask first!


You got to have standards.


Be straightforward. Ain't nobody got time for games. 


Sometimes flattery does the job better than the truth. 


Never underestimate the power of a rocking 'do.

You've got to be interesting for others to be interested. 

Play up your strong suit. 


No-one knows you better than your parents. Consult the elders.


Know your worth and don't settle.

Know that it's okay to not want what everyone else wants. 


Remember, looks fade but academic records stays with a person for LIFE!

And finally, you only need to find ONE person. You don't need to impress everyone with your awesomeness!


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