How to manage unrealistic expectations in a relationship

In this episode of Love Down Under, Sydney-based beauty queen, Kristine Tootsie Aseron talks about a set of expectations that would be more helpful to keep the relationship moving forward.

Mrs Universe Ltd Australia 2021 Photo by Bob Reyes

Key Points

• Expectations and standards in a relationship formed by early life experiences may not match up to those of your significant other.
• Tootsie shares that communicating to your partner what you are thinking, feeling and needing opens up the door for a conversation to understand each other’s point of view and reach a compromise that works for both of you and makes your union stronger.
• It is unrealistic to expect a relationship to be free of conflicts, but it is important to keep them in perspective. Managing expectations in a relationship means grounding our hopes in reality and respect for ourselves and our partners.