'I was polycystic, every time I'd go to the Specialist, I would see the eggs (that looked like circles) and then I would always ask; Why baby, why can't you grow in my womb? The circles have become very symbolic to me. I promised myself, I will make something beautiful out of those circles.' Filipina artist Benette Hernandez on how Mandala Art helped her cope with the grief of all four miscarriages. Credit: B Hernandez
Benett Hernandez and her husband of twenty years once dreamed of becoming parents, but life had other plans. They were overjoyed when they learned of their four pregnancies, only to be devastated when their pregnancies turned into miscarriages.
Benett Hernandez and her husband of twenty years once dreamed of becoming parents, but life had other plans. They were overjoyed when they learned of their four pregnancies, only to be devastated when their pregnancies turned into miscarriages.
Key Points
Benett rediscovered her creative side while finding ways to deal with her sorrow.
Benett Hernandez is the founder of Creative Wellness Haven and facilitates creative wellness workshops in her local community particularly to those who have suffrered loss.
Mandala art became a symbol of her unborn babies, where every circle symbolizes the egg.
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'You know grief has no timeline, but one day I woke up feeling really light and grateful. I realised it is not really a reflection of losing babies but what remains after the loss.' Benett Hernandez, on how she found the courage to rebuild her life after her failed pregnancies. Credit: B HernandezBenett Hernandez rediscovered her creative side while dealing with the pain of four miscarriages. Today, she volunteers her time in her local community in Geelong, giving creative wellness workshops to support those who have suffered loss. Credit: B HernandezDaily art journals helped Benett face her grief; she rediscovered her creative side by baking again, creating jewellery, and devoting her time to plants, and then she found Mandala art. 'I discovered that my creative process was a big part of my healing journey. It is important to find our passion and do what we really love to help us heal, body, mind and soul.' Credit: B Hernandez
