Swiped and scammed: How a dating app romance cost a Filipino chef his first paycheck

When Eman Recio moved to Australia to begin a new life as a chef, he brought with him big dreams: a promising career, a fresh start, and maybe even the chance to find love. But what began as light-hearted chats on a dating app quickly turned into an emotional and financial trap.

Australians are being warned to protect themselves against romance scams. Credit: Getty / Tero Vesalainen/Getty Images

KEY POINTS

• As the online romance progressed, the woman introduced a cryptocurrency “investment” platform. Eman was shown fake returns and encouraged to put in more money. After sending 500 AUD- his first paycheck in Australia, Eman was blocked, and the woman disappeared.
• According to Scamwatch Australia, over $23.5 million was lost in romance scams in a single year. Scammers use emotional manipulation to convince victims to invest in fake cryptocurrency platforms, starting with small amounts before pushing for more.
• Psychologist Dr. Donn Tantengco says that these scams don’t just empty wallets, they damage self-worth, trust, and emotional stability.

LISTEN TO THE PODCAST

Swiped and scammed: How a dating app romance cost a Filipino chef his first paycheck

SBS Filipino

11:24Filipino

If you have been a victim of a scam—whether online, through a phone call, or via email—you can report it to the ACCC or call the Australian Cyber Security Hotline at 1300 292 371 for investigation, even if the scammer is overseas.

Additionally, report the incident to your local police and bank for further assistance.

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