Little children clambered around the Bali bombing memorial in Sydney on Saturday, knocking the flowers laid by the friends and family of those killed.
One boy asked his new playmate, "Which one is yours?"
And she, a girl no older than seven, pointed to one of the names of the dead and said "He was my uncle".
They were not yet born when the bombs exploded at Paddy's Bar and the Sari Club on October 12, 2002, but they have grown up in the shadow of the attacks.
Eighty-eight Australians were among the 202 people killed in the attacks on Bali's tourist hub Kuta, and 43 of the dead were from NSW alone.
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"The Bali bombing was our September 11," Prime Minister Tony Abbott said in a message read out to the hundreds who gathered at Coogee to mark the 11th anniversary of the blasts.
Randwick mayor Scott Nash said 20 of the dead came from Sydney's eastern suburbs, from Bondi to Malabar, and few locals had not been touched in some way by the attacks.
"The beautiful people that we lost were sons, mothers, fathers, daughters and friends," he said.
"Tough times often bring out the very best in humanity and we can see that today, as we see it each year."
Waves crashed and tourists frolicked on the beach below as mourners gathered at the Dolphins Point headland observed a moment's silence.
Among them was Kristie McKeon, who was just 12 when her mother, big sister and several family friends were killed in the bombings.
She and her father were injured but escaped with their lives.
"It was our last night in Bali," the 23-year-old recalled.
"I remember the bomb going off, being on the floor and trapped under the roof, escaping in panic through a hole and then reaching the back wall and being hoisted over as the fire grew."
The graphic designer said she had been forced to grow up without the two most important women in her life to guide her.
They will not be here to watch her marry next year.
"Family is something I lost, but something I look forward to finding again," she said.
"My only wish is that my mum and sister were here to be a part of it.
"I will never forget.
"I will always remember."
