From feeling ashamed to celebrating: A Melbourne-born artist's journey to embracing her Filipino identity

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Melbourne-born Katie Archer once felt ashamed of her skin, hair, and identity—so much so that she barely recognised herself. Over time, however, she found the courage to embrace the very parts of herself the world once made her hide. Credit: Katie Archer (Instagram)

Melbourne-born artist-singer and dance teacher Katie Archer grew up in a world that often mocked her skin colour, heritage, and identity. Years of racial discrimination made her hide her Filipino roots and feel ashamed of herself, until she found the courage to embrace all that she once tried to hide. Today, she proudly celebrates her Filipino identity. Katie’s journey from self-doubt to self-acceptance stands as a powerful reminder of the importance of embracing who we truly are.


Key Points
  • Melburnian Katie Archer spent her childhood facing ridicule for her skin colour and heritage, leading her to hide her Filipino roots and struggle with her identity.
  • Only when she became an adult, Katie found the strength to reclaim and embrace the very parts of herself she once felt forced to conceal.
  • Now a confident music and dance teacher, Katie proudly celebrates her Filipino background—transforming her personal journey into an inspiring message about embracing one’s true self.
Shaped by experiences of racial discrimination and the constant pressure to hide her being Filipino, Katie Archer slowly learned to feel ashamed of her appearance. But over the years, Katie found the courage to embrace the very identity the world once pushed her to reject.
I used to come home crying all the time. Kids at my preschool would tease me because they said my name sounded Asian. Even my dark hair became something I was ashamed of. I remember being in Grade 4, coming home in tears and telling my mum how much I hated my hair for being so dark—and she said, ‘Let’s bleach it.’ So we did. I was so young, and I felt so different… almost like I didn’t belong. I kept asking myself, ‘Why am I so dark?’ when all my friends around me were blonde and white. I tried so hard to be someone I wasn’t. Back then, I had no confidence at all.
Kaitren Archer, music and dance teacher
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