'So this is what it feels like to be passionate about politics?': Marnie Gray on voting for a minor party

A series of tragic events in Marnie Gray's hometown of Wangaratta made this year's election very important to her, and it was a minor party who won her crucial vote.

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The murder of a young girl in Marnie Gray's hometown strongly influenced her vote. Source: AAP

Politics have never really interested me. I have always been a swinging voter, never loyal to Labor or Liberal. Each election I would assess each party’s policies and promises then vote for what seemed to be the better of the two.

This year’s election was somewhat different. A spiral of tragic events in my home town of Wangaratta made it very important to me - to make my vote count for something.  

It started out as a domestic violence situation, where my children and I were in danger. After some time of continuous stalking and late night attacks I was told by police to consider leaving town as they couldn’t protect me or my loved ones.  At first I didn’t think I should have to - but safety won over. I left town in 2014.

Fast forward 12 months and the very street that I had moved from was home to the most horrifying tragedy. A beautiful, vibrant 11 year old girl call Zoe Buttigieg, who had played with my girls daily,  danced in my lounge room, played with my dogs, smiled, waved and said hello every time I got home, was raped and murdered. Despite what you think you know about this case, Zoe was well loved, well looked after and raised well by her mother Janelle.  It shone through in Zoe’s beautiful nature.  The only person responsible for her death is the man who did it.  It was not a party house as portrayed by the media; my children played there often. But don’t let the truth get in the way of a good story.
Marnie Gray, on Insight.
Marnie Gray, on Insight. Source: Insight
Still in shock, four months later, the community was devastated yet again, this time Karen Chetcutti was murdered by her next door neighbour. The man was on parole for violent crimes. However, even though I am told that Karen may have known about her killer’s past -  it did not save her. Her friend Carol tells me she was so beautifully-natured that she did not judge people on their past, however adequate parole reform and supervision may have been.

A very good friend of mine, Tania Maxwell, and Karen Chetcutti’s friend, Carol Roadknight, teamed up and started the #ENOUGHISENOUGH campaign. I jumped on board to help out when I heard about it and  even rallied some troops to travel to Wangaratta to march with the town.  Bruce and Denise Morcombe, and Derryn Hinch came to speak to us about how the justice or “injustice” system is failing us.  Flying on the coat tails, as they say of Tania and Carol, I stayed and had lunch with Derryn that day. He took the time to listen. I told him of my concern for Zoe’s mum and how the back lash of the public of a grieving mother was disgusting. I told him how when I was young I had the most protective mother ever, yet was molested while she had cups of tea at a relative’s place. It was no one’s fault except the people who do these horrifying things. He won my vote in an instant. He also shared with me that he too had been molested as a child, while his parents had a party. It was not their fault. It was the perpetrators.
So this is what it feels like to be passionate about politics?
A couple of months later, Tania and Carol invited me along to attend the launch of Derryn Hinche’s Justice Party in Ballarat. If I was not already convinced of the passion, this weekend sold me. Getting to meet his candidates, his team, his driver, all real genuine passionate people, who had quit their jobs to be part of the movement. I felt I was truly part of something big that weekend.  I was invited to attend the Sofitel on election night along with Tania and Carol, this time I decided to be a foot soldier in my new town handing out Justice Party Flyers.  This was pretty big for me. Those people usually annoyed me, and here I was being one.  Putting my ego aside, getting the job done was more important. 

So this is what it feels like to be passionate about politics?

So what do I expect now from Senator Derryn Hinch?  Along with warriors such as the Morcombe’s, Rosie Battie, and the #ENOUGHISENOUGH girls, Tania Maxwell and Carol Roadknight -  and now Derryn in the Senate, I anticipate change on the horizon on sentences for violent and sexual offenders and parole reform. I hope to see victims of domestic violence being heard and helped by a system that is meant to be there to protect them.

This is just the beginning.

We now have the voice of a man who is not afraid to use it.

 

Marnie Gray is a guest on Insight's Minority Report, looking at why so many Australians are turning away from the major parties | Catch-up online now: 

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A version of this piece originally appeared on Mamamia


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